Contest Entry Discussion

[CoreyMaida]

The main reason I'm looking for constructive criticism right now is that I'm still very early in on an attempt at a writing career: I'm only 19, probably one of the youngest people to submit a story here if I could guess. I really want to know where to go from here as far as my writing is concerned, so, in theory, by my thirties or so I could potentially be learned enough to be a professional or otherwise paid to write. I wasn't trying to stir anything earlier, I hope there's no hard feelings! It was just something that was on my mind, so I figured why not let it out rather than harbor it in.

[Nik Houser]

I love this discussion guys! This is one of the main reasons for this contest. To stir up conversation in "The Writer's Corner" about writing in general.

SERIOUSLY! This conversation is SO much cooler than the dental appoint I have to go to now. Can't wait to get back here.

[C.W. LaSart]

I love this discussion guys! This is one of the main reasons for this contest. To stir up conversation in "The Writer's Corner" about writing in general.

This is a wonderful tool for networking! Although we are all competing against each other in this contest, we won't always be in direct competition and can benefit from each others friendship and experience.

[ozmosis7]

I'm always up for discussing any of the creative arts. I dabble in them all, but try to focus on writing. Anyone should feel to approach me with anything regarding them. I'm always up for a chat. So feel free to add me to any social network, or link to my blog, etc. I typically hang out on facebook & the forums though.

[Dan Hocker]

I love this discussion guys! This is one of the main reasons for this contest. To stir up conversation in "The Writer's Corner" about writing in general.

[Draven Ames]

Thanks for the congrats, and ditto! Especially trying to find time to write while raising a kid. Holy moly. I can't even imagine that. Do you even sleep?

I sleep as much as my back will allow me. I've got two boys, 10 and 14. The family is very supportive of my writing. It's the only thing to keep me sane. Use it or lose it.

[Nik Houser]

boy you all opened a can of worms. I'm going to be bugging you for honest and frank advice as I try to progress in my writing. I'm an Information Technology manager - and throughout my career, many of MY managers say my biggest asset is taking criticism professionally and learning from it. I dont see how anyone aspiring to do anything can take criticism personally - how is one to progress in their trade/craft if no one ever tells them what they're doing WRONG?

Agreed. Plus, what they're doing right. It's good encouragement, and can show someone where their strengths are.

[Nik Houser]

I'm just stoked that you looked me up, Nik. Glad to meet you and yes, my story will be the opening story in that same issue of Bonded by Blood with you. Congratulations on your writing so far.

Thanks for the congrats, and ditto! Especially trying to find time to write while raising a kid. Holy moly. I can't even imagine that. Do you even sleep?

[Draven Ames]

boy you all opened a can of worms. I'm going to be bugging you for honest and frank advice as I try to progress in my writing. I'm an Information Technology manager - and throughout my career, many of MY managers say my biggest asset is taking criticism professionally and learning from it. I dont see how anyone aspiring to do anything can take criticism personally - how is one to progress in their trade/craft if no one ever tells them what they're doing WRONG?

very strong statement. You'll go far, my friend.

[Nik Houser]

Absolutely, ozmosis7. I think the problem a lot of writers have is falling in love with their own work, so it's a bit of a crusher when someone offers criticism. I think this is pretty common. I certainly fall prey to that feeling of "oh man, this thing I wrote is so great! I can't wait for so-and-so to read it!" I have to constantly reign that crap in. And the more you do, the better a self-editor you can become, because the more objective you'll be able to see your own work. At least, that's what I strive for, with varying results.

[Dan Hocker]

I would like to say that I liked all of the entries I've read so far. It's only been about 10 or so (not enough time in the day) but everyone of them has been good.

P.S. Up until the voting started I was reading them in the order they where posted, so you can guess if I've read yours or not

[Draven Ames]

Speaking of networking, hey Draven, I think you and I are going to be in the same SNM volume! Small world! And RJ, that's awesome, thanks! Hahaha. That totally made my day. By the way folks, I didn't mean to imply that anybody here, writer or not, was using their social network to their advantage simply because they had one.

P.S. I am officially envious of Draven's blog. Really nicely put together, man. Well done.

I'm just stoked that you looked me up, Nik. Glad to meet you and yes, my story will be the opening story in that same issue of Bonded by Blood with you. Congratulations on your writing so far.

[RJHubbard53]

boy you all opened a can of worms. I'm going to be bugging you for honest and frank advice as I try to progress in my writing. I'm an Information Technology manager - and throughout my career, many of MY managers say my biggest asset is taking criticism professionally and learning from it. I dont see how anyone aspiring to do anything can take criticism personally - how is one to progress in their trade/craft if no one ever tells them what they're doing WRONG?

[ozmosis7]

I agree with all of this. Probably the most difficult thing any writer will come up against is learning how to take harsh criticism the right way. You are never going to please everyone, but you can also take that information and use it to your advantage, in order to become a better writer. Typically, colleagues who criticize your work aren't trying to put you down, but rather help you advance to that next level. It can sting some, but learning to accept that with graciousness will best benefit your future. The crit group I am in is fantastic for that.

[Nik Houser]

Speaking of networking, hey Draven, I think you and I are going to be in the same SNM volume! Small world! And RJ, that's awesome, thanks! Hahaha. That totally made my day. By the way folks, I didn't mean to imply that anybody here, writer or not, was using their social network to their advantage simply because they had one.

P.S. I am officially envious of Draven's blog. Really nicely put together, man. Well done.